My Girlfriend Renee

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Girlfriend with Ambition Wanted!

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You have this amazing idea that you want to start your new business, launch a blog, start a side hustle, create a youtube channel, you are so excited to start that you finally go for it and realize you know absolutely nothing and you have no clue who to talk to about it. Oooh Girlfriend get comfy and let’s chat.

I always knew in the back of my mind I wanted to start a blog. I had my husband telling me to do it, but you know how it is when you have your spouse cheering you on you kinda don’t believe them because they love you and have to support you, and come on, if I’m being honest he totally thinks I’m like the best thing on the planet. You know that feeling right? It wasn’t until I surrounded myself with other people that were in the same boat as me. Women that were already business owners and ones that were just starting to open one. They shared the same struggles, the same mindset, and the same end goal. It was like every single one of us although completely different had the same problem… feeling alone and like they had no one to talk to. My mind was opened to this whole new level of goal setting, it made me really think about how much surrounding yourself with people that force you to level up is crucial to your success. I would not have been able to accomplish what I have if it was’t for women like the ones mentioned above setting higher expectations for me.

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The more people I come across, the more stories I hear about women feeling like I did when I first started. Alone, scared, overwhelmed, and in desperate need of a friend. Just someone to bounce ideas off, to chat when you question yourself, someone to give you advice or honest feedback, heck to even tell you to suck it up and stop being a little bitch. We all need a person that will give you that safe place to go when you need it most.

Do you feel like I am talking to you? I have a feeling a lot of you are nodding your head right about now. I know it’s hard to make that leap, why not make it easier? Find a mentor, confidence coach, or girlfriend that can help you through it, that will push you out of your comfort zone, that will make showing up a lot less lonely. If you don’t have that person, look no further, I am always here to be that person for you. Do not hesitate to reach out to your girlfriend Renee! I am right here with you putting in the work.




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Making a Lifestyle Change, Without support of Friends and Family

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This is the week, the day, the month that you are committing to make a change. It could be fitness, a new job, a new lifestyle, new friends, or a new goal. You tell your friends and family but they stare and make comments, inside you feel so alone or even dumb for saying it out loud. That little voice in your head starts to speak up and confirm everything they just said is true, you give up before you even get started.

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Girl I go through this on the regular. I have these ideas, goals, reasons why I want to make a change. But the more people I tell, the more alone I feel. The comments, the looks, are all real and they cut deep. This is where you have to take a step back, and keep moving, one step at a time, one shitty comment at a time, one day at a time. This is where you shut that voice in your head up no matter how many times it repeats itself.

The looks and comments you are getting have nothing to do with you. Let me repeat this, the looks and comments you are getting have nothing to do with you. Repeat this every single time until you don’t have to anymore. They are coming from that persons insecurities in themselves not in you. You are making a change, you are taking a step, you are doing the uncomfortable. Take all those comments as a sign you are moving in the right direction. And don’t stop.

I’m not telling you this from past experience, I am telling you this as I deal with it currently. I have big dreams, I have big goals, and I also have people that don’t get it. Do you think I am going to let those opinions stop me? Do you think I am going to let those opinions stop you? Heck no Girlfriend! I am right here with you, if you feel alone, or if your dreams are to big….. email me, I’ll write you back and let you know they aren’t big enough. This is your safe place, this is your outlet, in the words of Stefanie Peters- “ Stop telling your big dreams to small minded people”. Let’s do this together my friend. One step at a time.

Leave a comment below to share what you are going through, or what you went through and how you got through it. I think the more we share the more people we can help.




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